cksum: exit 1 when OOM

[oech3]

I opened this since many people try to fix #12869 by hacky solutions and artifactal bounds...
Closes #12930
Closes #12881

[github-actions]

GNU testsuite comparison:

Skipping an intermittent issue tests/cut/bounded-memory (passes in this run but fails in the 'main' branch)
Note: The gnu test tests/rm/many-dir-entries-vs-OOM is now being skipped but was previously passing.
Note: The gnu test tests/tail/pipe-f is now being skipped but was previously passing.
Note: The gnu test tests/tail/tail-n0f is now being skipped but was previously passing.

[codspeed-hq]

Merging this PR will degrade performance by 3.29%

⚠️ Different runtime environments detected

Some benchmarks with significant performance changes were compared across different runtime environments,
which may affect the accuracy of the results.

Open the report in CodSpeed to investigate

❌ 1 regressed benchmark
✅ 322 untouched benchmarks
⏩ 46 skipped benchmarks¹

Warning

Please fix the performance issues or acknowledge them on CodSpeed.

Performance Changes

	Mode	Benchmark	BASE	HEAD	Efficiency
❌	Simulation	du_max_depth_balanced_tree[(6, 4, 10)]	25.2 ms	26.1 ms	-3.29%

Tip

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_{Comparing oech3:shakeoom (4feefdb) with main (72d5483)}

Footnotes

1. 46 benchmarks were skipped, so the baseline results were used instead. If they were deleted from the codebase, click here and archive them to remove them from the performance reports. ↩